For every person, in every era of human history, in every geographical location, no matter what factors are involved, everyone fears one thing above every other thing. That highest fear is different for different people. Some fear rejection above all else, for others it is pain or death or loneliness. That which you fear is that which you worship. And that may seem like an extreme statement, but it is profoundly true. If someone fears death, then they will spend their time, money and energy to delay the process. This may manifest in the buying of obnoxiously expensive health products, over-priced gym memberships and incredibly thorough health insurance, but in the end the fear of death dictates their life. If someone fears rejection, then they will spend their time, money and energy on looking good, living good and appearing happy, healthy and wealthy.
It is a wise thing to periodically, if not frequently, stop the hustle and bustle of everyday life and evaluate what you are doing and why you are doing it. In person experience, both mine and others, I have observed that many times we will be doing something not because it is what we want to do but because it is just what we know to do. We sometimes have no reason for giving ourselves over to what we give ourselves over to. This includes ministry. If I had a dollar for every time I did some form of ministry just because I had always done it, I would have a much thicker wallet for sure. This is one of the most difficult things about being in professional ministry or voluntary ministry for extended periods of time, we know what to do but we forget why we are doing it.
The “why” behind the “what” is the more important part many times. Imagine the response of a father if his 7 year old daughter asks for a dollar to buy some candy, the father will likely not hesitate to bless his beloved daughter. But imagine that she asks so that she can buy a candy bar for her friend, how much more will he be willing to do what she asks in order to encourage the character growth in his daughter. Take it to the next level, what if the daughter asks for the dollar to buy candy for another little girl that she saw as they drove through the poor neighborhood? Motivation is powerful.
We are driven by realities that we believe above others. We can evangelize because that is what good Christians do, or we can evangelize because the King is returning to the planet and will grant eternal life to those that would accept the free gift of forgiveness. In Matthew, here, we see that Jesus is addressing motivation. Who do fear the most? Do you fear the ones that hate you because of Him, or do you fear Him? What can they do to you? They can be cruel to you, even kill you, but He is able to destroy both your body and soul. The soul is the object of the war that wages in the earth. He who controls his soul has self-control, inner dominion, which is a manifestation of the Spirit’s work in one’s life. Power to destroy the soul of a man is a lofty authority. Only the Maker has the power to and ability to fully destroy a soul, and He will exercise this authority in the end and He will be fully justified and righteous in doing so.
Perfect love casts out fear, yet we are repeatedly reminded to fear the Lord. This is not just reverence, it is terror. But in the end you are faced with two major fears, either you will be eaten by the bear or the lion and you will have to choose which one you trust. The one that you trust more you will still fear because they both want to kill you, but in the end, the Lion wants to resurrect you and is the only one that actually can kill you.
*God, You alone can take our lives, we trust You and ask for fearless love in You and ask that You would grant us righteous motivation in our pursuits and strivings. Amen*